The extreme hurt resulting from the passing of 19-year-old Cory Headen late last month is a constant presence among the Headen family of Sooke.

Parents John and Lorri, partner Stacy, sister Melissa along with extended family and circle of friends remain gripped by a sadness which can only be tempered by the steady passage of time.

The young man who had recently moved to Courtenay lost his life in what appeared to be an unprovoked attack in the up-Island city.

Cory was a friendly young man and his dad says he lived for hunting and fishing. The outdoor activity was a strong bond between the two and will remain the source of many fond memories for the elder Headen.

Cory's dad said positive changes had recently begun to occur in Cory's life. He had left the nest and gone to work on building a future in the Comox Valley with Stacy and their four-month-old son Ryder. Cory had seized an opportunity as a butcher's apprentice and the outlook was promising for the young family.

"It was in the last six months when it all came together," said John Headen of the effect that assumed responsibility had on his son. The two had been in regular phone contact – updates which were greatly appreciated by John.

A fundraising effort had been held recently, involving folks including Carol Planes.

Cory was her son Michael's best friend.

"It's to help the family in general, whatever they need it for," said Planes. "It's to lighten the burden."

Planes said Cory worked with them digging clams and had been close to the family since he was 11-years-old.

Andrew Herman, who also worked with Cory clamming for a couple of years said he was, "a great kid, no problem, everyone liked him."

A semblance of closure for the Headen clan may prove elusive, as John pointed out. He's aware that legal developments, media coverage, etc. will likely serve to restore the intensity of painful emotions on an ongoing basis. He acknowledges the reality... something they will have to deal with one day at a time.

John also acknowledges the large amount of support delivered during such a tough time. He offered special thanks to Kari Lindroos and family... to other members of the community and all who have expressed condolences and support.