Don’t count self out at age 50
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Updated: October 13, 2009 3:59 PM
Editor:
Re: Poor example for your child, Oct. 2 letters.
It was really hard to think that in my neighbourhood there would be a person – let alone a family – that would taunt someone in such a way for rummaging through yard-sale leftovers.
The lack of compassion and respect was astounding.
I had a few things that struck me with letter to the editor from I. Hynds.
First, that sometimes it is hard to distinguish parents from children as they participate in the same behaviours and activities that would have been reserved for our youthful ignorance. Barring substance abuse contributing, maybe these parents have taken that generational disease “to be a friend” to their son to the extreme, relinquishing all guidance and discipline for the “we are cool” approach.
Rather than parent, how fun it is for this father to think that his kid likes him, really likes him, acting like an idiot. I only hope when this kid goes to school he gets a little more information about empathy, responsible living and communication, though I think the schools have enough on their hands.
We lived for a time in English Bay. In downtown Vancouver, it was not uncommon to see people pulling up in their nice cars, rummaging through the goods left out in the alleys behind the apartments – an area that was ripe with interesting items and plenty of people ready to recycle, use and possibly sell what one does not want. Especially at the end of the month, you would be surprised to see the number of cars and those walking around to get a deal. Selling on EBay and Craigslist can be very helpful as a primary or secondary income.
My last point is to the letter writer. I do not know your personal circumstances. As a career coach I can assure you there are resources that can help, should you wish to pursue those options.
Being 50 years of age is not necessarily a negative; there are agencies that cater to that demographic, with employers who are willing to hire the “mature” worker. The mature worker is often seen as more reliable, and if you target yourself accordingly with resume and presentation you can make a positive impression. If you are not qualifying for EI or other social help there are people out there that can still provide assistance.
As a private coach I have happily offered free consultations to individuals, and there are others like me.
Please don’t feel like work life is over at 50. Judging by what you wrote you have more skills and are far more equipped for life than the man you came across at the side of the road.
Good luck to you.
Jennifer Chandler, Surrey
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